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^^^^^ Agree, agree. Did I tell you? I've had a Social Experiment of my own. Well... a super aggressive pursuer. I had to let them down easy and honest last night. That I'm not in that place right now... They had asked for my address to send me flowers so it was a big "Whooooaaaa!"

It is nice to have someone else remind us that we are who we have always been... hottie's.

"Those of you who know me on the alt or RL know I am not "beautiful". I am not unfortunate, but Victoria's Secret has yet to come knocking. But when SE2 said that, all I could think was "Yeah, I am."

Agree with Rosa Linda, Ruby. You are beautiful inside and out!

Thanks again guys, but the purpose wasn't for affirmation, it was just a comment that to work on the inside is freaking tough, but the benefits are amazing!!

RT- I like the SE!! A little validation never ever hurt and who wouldn't think you were amazing? You are

ruby- I'm not surprised SE2 said all those things about you-- you are beautiful inside and out!!!

Was SE2 a guy you would date again if you decided you were done?

Again, I am soooo impressed by your strong convictions and honesty to yourself in letting SE2 go and be upfront with him.

I don't know Ruby.....you did kinda rock that tutu

I hope you are having a nice weekend my friend. Are you here....or there?

PS I agree with PositiveSpin, you looked so cute in that tutu

Hey everyone, thanks!....the tutu was an H suggestion for the run and I said "perfect!" so I went and got one Kind of a 180, where he suggests and I say "okay" ( I used to be very contrary lmao)

Alright, update.
Thursday-ran with H and running group again, he left to have his usual beers with friends, so he left our get together early. He asked if I wanted to join him and I said no, those are his friends and even though I am also good friends with them, it is their time together. Picked up S, headed home. Many texts from H, bit flirty, not overtly. Asked if he coud stay Saturday night, if there was room in the bed. I said "of course lol"

Friday- had mentioned it was pizza and movie night for me. If he was bored he was welcome to come out early (was helping at his sister's restaurant Saturday) ad join me. He said maybe....but he said he fell asleep Friday early.


Saturday-came and helped out at restaurant, stayed over . Pretty sure H's LL is touch, so made sure to touch him a lot......even at restaurant, where he hugged me (in public, in front of people he knows and family), and a lot at home. Sunday he went to a friend's place and had a meeting. He also had a couple odd jobs here. He got home and said that he would take a nap, he did. When he woke late afternoon, early evening, he said "Why would I go back to my hot apartment?" I said "Stay, and go early Monday" So he did

He left today, remembered I was in town Wednesday and said if I was in early we could grab a coffee.

Positive weekend, no pressure from me for anything. Not a lot to report, except we talked about upcoming vacay and that I was welcome to sleep in the same bed

I said that I was good with anything and H said he does not care what others think (ie his sister etc., whom we share the house with). Also showed H a dress I liked for the wedding...said it was perfect except for price...yikes! He almost caved for price when he saw the dress lmao! But out of the question, really. Yet I think I will leave him with that image of me in that dress He still has it on his phone...

Just know who you are in the midst of all this.

Always Bug.

He went back to city and I am good

What a weekend. I do hope you are still at peace with yourself Ruby. Stay your course and be strong. Love you