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Hi Ellie, I was thinking of you today. And not just because I secretly want to learn the drums.....

I hope this works out better for you. Money always seems to be the problem. My kids both feel abandoned by their dad. And he hasn't done anything bad to them personally. I realized it is me, I quit speaking for him. Which I did for years. It has been difficult for him to find his voice.

Sounds like your X is just a jerk. Anyway, I was sending out all the good thoughts I could for you and your situation.

Aloha,

Wendy

that must be so frustrating KML. it seems to me that the emotional ties/issues from a M and D last far longer than the M and D...

unfortunately the children are the only way for the unaware to continue to play those issues out. wonder if that is what your X is doing?

sorry this puts you and them in such a tough situation.