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That's happy news Wonka! SOOOOOO ready for football! I'm an ACC fan more than NFL... but any pigskin will do! Tailgate time!

Very happy news !!!

I like it a lot :))

Kudos!

So awesome that you can walk without fear in regards to building a relationship with your X.

Keep on keeping on!

Wonka, these are good news that Ms. Wonka is receptive to your texts. You must be doing something right. I hope that OW is out of the picture or almost out of the picture now, since Mr. Wonka is in contact with you.

Thanks everyone for the positive replies.

This morning, Ms. Wonka responded in a pretty lengthy text when I asked an open ended question about one NFL team yesterday. In it, she mentioned the OW's name. I gather that they're still very much together.

Of course, I am disappointed. And I don't plan on responding to this text as it does not require one.

Life goes on. *sigh* I am going away for the weekend.

Ahhh, those expectations!

Wonka – turn this around in your head! She needs somebody to compare you against! How else would she be able to see and comprehend the magnificent you.

You are doing so great – this is just a bump and in fact you are mindreading a textmessage so you do not know anything for certain as I read your post! Keep on your path!

All the best!

F

So sorry, Wonka. At least now you know the situation and you can apply this knowledge to your further steps. It is interesting though that being with OW didn’t stop her from opening the channel of communication with you. Who knows what kind of relationship they now have. Maybe not everything is rosy in the house of Ms. Wonka.

Wonka "This morning, Ms. Wonka responded in a pretty lengthy text when I asked an open ended question about one NFL team yesterday. In it, she mentioned the OW's name. I gather that they're still very much together."

Wonka! You don't know they are "very much together" unless she wrote something like "my darling soul mate OW is a big Giants fan." (grrrr Giants, another reason to dislike OW!) She didn't did she? 

Just think about what your always well-reasoned advice to me would be if I made a mind reading statement like that! You'd give me seven hugs, brush me off, and stand me back up, then tell me to knock off with the expectations already, and trust the process! 

Plus even if they ARE seeing each other, so what! Wonka is back!! As T^2 would say, you've put a crack in that wall! A big fat crack! Keep up your great DBing to knock that wall down altogether!

Fartiltre "She needs somebody to compare you against! How else would she be able to see and comprehend the magnificent you. "

Yup! Carry on my friend!

Ya...just keep up the wonderful world of Wonka!!

Ya...I hear y'all. BUT...still.

Background, for you F, Ms. Wonka and OW moved in with Ms. Wonka's mother because, according to Ms. Wonka when we spoke on the phone for the first time back in Nov, 'she cannot be left alone.' Also I did a bit "research" on the Internet and found that OW has a full schedule teaching classes for this upcoming academic year.

So you can see why I said that I gathered they were still very much together.

I am done with this glacier cracking and am laying down my ice pick. Been at this crazymaking for 9 years. Enough is enough. It is now up to Ms. Wonka to do the work and she needs to jump hoops herself to win back my trust, my friendship, etc.

Meanwhile, I'm gonna focus more on GAL and see if I can fill up my own dance card with some 'new' friends to borrow a page from Kate's 'Winnie The Pooh' playbook.