"Mrbond, it's not a good idea for K to demand money off him at this stage."
I didn't say that she had to demand money from him. I said to get some kind of arrangement down in writing if possible. This includes money and time with the kids. You may have read in a book about a W who didn't ask for a penny and wasn't screwed over, but I've got 5 years of real life situations that I've helped with on here that have shown how countless WAS's have screwed over the LBS.
When the WAS can text their AP right in front of the LBS, you'll be surprised how much they'll abuse what they're given.
Just protect yourself K.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
"Mrbond, it's not a good idea for K to demand money off him at this stage."
I didn't say that she had to demand money from him. I said to get some kind of arrangement down in writing if possible. This includes money and time with the kids. You may have read in a book about a W who didn't ask for a penny and wasn't screwed over, but I've got 5 years of real life situations that I've helped with on here that have shown how countless WAS's have screwed over the LBS.
When the WAS can text their AP right in front of the LBS, you'll be surprised how much they'll abuse what they're given.
Just protect yourself K.
Ok I'm sorry mr bond, it just sounded a bit harsh. K is going thru a rough time and the last thing she wants to think about is if H will keep to his word or not. K is sorting it out by the sounds of things
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Hello 180 I had just started a new topic called A New Beginning. I hope to hear from you soon . How are things with you. I'm doing better I actually had a really great sleep last night I didn't get I'll every hour like I have been doing for the last two monthes. Starting to let go a little bit of H but I'm still not giving up on our marriage. I'm justs stepping back and away from H to give him the same he needs and the space I need to grow. Well I'll talk to you later 180. Have a good night.
Hi K, good title Nice and positive I'm ok, still not heard from H. It's been 2 days now and water's coming into the conservatory. Time to go dark again! You sound like you're getting stronger, good for you I'll pop over now to your new thread and carry on our chat there
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
