Hi Serendipity, I'm sorry you are in this sitch. This is a good place to be, with good advice. A lot of it sounds like the complete opposite of what you want to do or think you should do, but doing your 180s and GALs are important. I know you said your H thinks your changes so far are fake, but keep them up and show him you have made some changes for good. It's hard (for me at least) to be the one making all of these changes to be better when you want to blame your H for doing this, but it is worth it in the long run! Good luck with your sitch and keep us updated on your progress.
Me: 27 H: 27 Together: 11, M: 3 S 2 BD: 06/24/13 Living together H: EA - unknown current status Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR) Back and forth we go...