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No pressure TVS. It's a vacation. Enjoy yourself and your boys and I'm sure h will too. Put your focus on you and your boys. H will see what he has been missing. I'm sure FT will be sweating and let her.

Have a great time and we're all thinking about you!

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Really, that's what it's all about. OOPS!

Kick back and have a good time T. I'll be thinking of you and wishing you guys all the best!

Me too!!!!

Thinking of you, my friend. Sending thoughts, prayers and positive vibes your way.

Miss you.

Thank you everyone

Miss you too girl!

So far, so good. Snapped at me about directions on the way here, but he's always been like that! We had a fun, very busy day yesterday.

He did suggest we each sleep with a kid, but I anticipated that, and it worked out well. His reasoning was that the kids would fool around too much and not want to sleep, which to be honest, is probably true! Whatever his motivation, I think we both enjoyed snuggling with our boys

He texted very little during the day, but was texting once we all went to bed.

Just finished breakfast, ready to head out for more fun. The boys are all hyped up!

Catch you guys later

thanks for checking in -- your entire cheering section is pulling for you T! Sorry about the texting, but at least he's not doing it during your day together. FT must be livid hahaha! Did you ditch his cell phone charger like I suggested

Have fun!!

PS snuggling with a sleepy boy is a lot better than sleeping in a big cold bed with your H with him clinging onto the edge of the mattress like mine did at my grandson's bar mitzvah

Thanks for checking in. I have been thinking of you all.

Yea, men and directions - what's up with that?

Glad you had no expectation regarding the sleeping arrangements other than what actually happened.

She is freakin', T. Hee hee. Did I laugh out loud? My bad.

So glad the boys are having fun.

Enjoy!

Okay everyone, world traveler (not exactly) TVS has made it back from vacation with an MLCer and two small children who haven't ever been in the car for more that two hours and I lived to tell about it lol!

I have a lot to say, but am exhausted tonight, so will update tomorrow.

I think this vacation needed to happen for many reasons, and they are all good.

I think my little guys are awesome.

I think so much has been going on that we have yet to see the ripple effects that are to come.

I think that as H has been inching his way closer, he took a big step forward with this trip.

I think the A is still alive and kicking, and that FT is not gonna let go of the reins anytime soon.

I think some thinking is going on in that jello brain.

I think things are going to continue to get interesting.

Just a few of my thoughts for this evening

Will catch up with all of you wonderful people tomorrow

YOU are awesome! I'm glad it was a good experience, and can't wait to hear the details!