Hi, I mentioned that because you said "I know what you're all going to say!" or did I read that wrong? You are doing great! Keep up the good work Miz, I like your take on things
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
oh so we should ignore the poor me stage then? lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Oh no don't stop I need all the smacking in the head when I'm in that stage it actually helps me to get back on track since I had stopped many conversations with H now. Thank you my friend for helping me through this.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
That's the spirit It will get easier, I can assure you Just read back to some of my first posts if you don't believe me
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Hi kelela, hope you are feeling better now. Regarding joe beam and his pies is that a book title? I've seem to see it being mentioned around here lately
You can find out about Joe Beam and his PIES by searching on the internet. It's not a book, he's a marriage counsellor and motivational speaker
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I have a question I would really like to ask H why he hasnt told his mom about us getting a D yet and also he hasn't brought up the D talk since my last melt down on him. The only reason I'm asking this is because MIL keeps asking me what's going on; and all I'm telling her is she needs to have a conversation with her son about what's going on. I feel like its not my place to tell her that her son is cheating on me with OW and he decided to leave his family. So I'm wondering if I still have a chance to save my M? I have backed off a lot in the last week. I don't text or call him unless its important I don't even wait till he gets home anymore. But I don't know cause we really don't talk that much anymore. I miss the way we use to be.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
He probably hasn't said anything because he's not worried about what anyone else thinks of his behavior. He is in an affair "fog" - meaning all he can "see" is his A, not you or the kids or his mother.
Tell your MIL that the two of you are having some problems (because she obviously knows something's up) and that you're working on things. Don't give her a lot of details. So I'm wondering if I still have a chance to save my M?
Yes Kelela, you do. But its not going to be today, or tomorrow either.
You are doing good. Remember the road is loooooooooooooooooong. Are you the little voice asking "Are we there yet?" Before the car's even out of the driveway?
Keep breathing. What are some GALs you've thought of? I haven't seen you write much about YOU lately.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
You are doing good. Remember the road is loooooooooooooooooong. Are you the little voice asking "Are we there yet?" Before the car's even out of the driveway?
Lol I love that analogy Miz I'm glad you answered this post before I came on as I didn't know how to answer it. I know you're going to miss his chats, but it does get easier I want to hear what GALs you are doing as well
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Kelela, you've still not mentioned whether or not you're a Christian? Someone has told me about a website called rejoiceministries. It will give you hope and comfort when you need it
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Miz, I like your take on things 