My biggest fear as finally showed up H has not come home last night or early this morning now I know how it will be not having here at home anymore. My reality of being alone raising my two boys by myself. I don't like how my life is going to be raising my two boys on my own. That's not fare that H has found happiness with some one else. Well I'm hurting so much
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
My biggest fear as finally showed up H has not come home last night or early this morning now I know how it will be not having him here at home anymore. My reality of being alone raising my two boys by myself. I don't like how my life is going to be raising my two boys on my own. That's not fare that H has found happiness with some one else. Well I'm hurting so much
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
I'm guessing you have, but have you ever given it much thought?
Think about it now, because it will make your life so much easier.
When you wake up in the morning ask yourself
Do my children and I have shelter for the day and for the night?
Do we have enough to eat today?
Do we have clothes to wear?
If the answer to those questions is yes then let go of your big worries because you can only live life one day at a time.
The other worries, the heart-worries cannot be solved by fretting, panicking, worrying, doubting or fearing.
But they may be solved, or at least lessened, with the passage of time.
You have suffered trauma to your family and marriage. Feeling pain is normal and natural. You have life changes crashing into you, feeling uncertain and nervous is normal and natural. Acknowledge those feelings but then bring your focus back to the here and now.
Does that make sense to you?
And keep breathing ~
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
