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All you "J"s are about to confuse me. crazy


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
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Guess we can add another J to the thread. How have you been Sandi?


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
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She has OM Previous FWB
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What's wrong with J...


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
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Sandi,

Well there has not been much correspondence at all. Actually my divorce was finalized yesterday! So it is officially over ............................


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Married 10/13/12
WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13
Divorce filed 2/13/13
Seperated 3/1/13 till ?????????
Divorced 5/28/13
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I'm sorry JT. I'm nearing the same position as you. Do you have friends near you to spend some time with you?

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Left coast,

I do have a very good support system of friends and family thank the lord. Not sure how I would have got through it without them to be honest. I was not sure how my emotions would be when this day came. I actually held up pretty well. It was actually more of a sense of relief and a weight lifted off my shoulders. There was no more worrying or hoping she would change her mind. It's over, and honestly..........I have a feeling it is better for the both of us! I wish everyone on here the best and will try to support others in thier goals to DB! I hope everyone else has better luck and can save thier marriage! God bless everyone that gave me advice! You all were a god send. Unfortunately, my wife was too far gone by the time I found this support group.


Me 33
W 32
Married 10/13/12
WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13
Divorce filed 2/13/13
Seperated 3/1/13 till ?????????
Divorced 5/28/13
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So sorry Jaytee.


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