I kept my married name. Used it professionally and wanted the same name as my children. If Josh & I were to marry - I would take his name because I lie it.
Among numerous other reasons for keeping my married name - I knew it would bu maggot (ow). She could not wait for my divorce so she could marry her "soulmate" ( my husband) despite the fact she was in a 19 year marriage at the time but had never taken his name. I just figured it would bug her if I kept it.
