M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
Ugh I wish I could stop reading online about separations...most see it as a prelude to a divorce. I gotta find some success stories on here with a WAH before I lose it. Staying positive is not working right now!
Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13
Ugh I wish I could stop reading online about separations...most see it as a prelude to a divorce. I gotta find some success stories on here with a WAH before I lose it. Staying positive is not working right now!
This bothered me too, a lot, but then I figured out I would have been D by now if my W didn't leave, so our S have given me time (not that I am using it wisely right now, but trying). I think if you want your M and don't give up it doesn't matter if your living together or not.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
I'm not using it wisely either. Good days and bad and like you, I'm angry right now. We just gotta get through the emotions like everyone else. Some days I feel like a lost cause.
Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13
Your doing great, your so new to this! My BD was 11/12 and I am just now starting (slowly) to make changes. As so many have said it is a roller coaster ride and marathon, so hang on, give it your best and learn from your mistakes, but mostly listen to the vets on here and act on their advice(listening to what i am telling you...)
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
Dear God no! I am not a coach, I am still very much a newbie! I do know a lot, but am just now starting to act on it. Honestly, there are amazing vets on here you need to listen to!
Very slow progress and that is only because of me, I have yet to let go and trust the process, I am one who must enjoy pain! My best advice is listen to the vets and then ACT, let go and trust this process! I will be honest and say you have to listen to your gut as sometimes you have to tailor a thing or two to suit your sitch. If i had a CC I would hire a DB coach! Thanks for the kind words!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
My gut gets me in trouble sometimes so I need to step back and not be so reactive. You, Bond, AS, Accuray and Advina have helped drilled some sense into my thick, young, stubborn skull.
Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13
