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I feel like why should I give her all the privileges of having a husband when she has no appreciation for those things.

You may find a huge benefit in coming up with some things that you want to do to GAL ("Get A Life").

Any hobbies? Working out? Sports? Reading? Yard work? Social activities? Museums, art galleries, concerts?

GAL helps us keep our minds of the sitches and can help us become more, well rounded people as we move forward. Otherwise, an idle mind can really be challenging as it wonders to the sitch.