In any event, NEVER leave your own marital home. It's one of only two or three things around here we practically ALL agree on!
Starsky
Very True.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
I voluntarily moved out for about 3 weeks when W requested. Last Friday I really felt like I needed a 180 and moved back in. W hasn't been home since - took D-4 with her.
MFT and one of W's friends have said that I'm wrong to want to stay here, that W and D-4 deserve to live here and I should get out if that's what she is asking for.
I felt like our time apart was getting nowhere. I was backing off like she asked. That's when she decided she wanted a divorce.
I'd just like to understand the rationale on staying in our marital home - guess I'm starting to second guess myself.
