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Originally Posted By: Tallula
He also started taking testosterone. Wanted to bulk up...


Depending on his age, that could be responsible for some of his behavior. Did his doc prescribe them or did he just get testosterone boosters?


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Anyway, I had asked him a few times if he thought he should talk to his Dr about switching meds. Kept saying he just felt numb to life. He mentioned it again last week. He thinks it might be causing some of his sleeping problems. Says he sleeps all the time now.


Any AD med can do this. And Lexapro CAN cause excessive sleeping, it's not as normal as insomnia. At least it didn't make my W a wackadooodle like Welbutrin did...


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Oh my. You did amazing with that. Wow, no kids should hear that. You really are a great dad!!


Thanks T. I consider myself a work in progress...


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He is taking some stuff from GNC. YOu are not the first person to say the testosterone could be some of his problem right now. I just don't think I'm the person to tell him that...


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He's not taking testosterone from GNC...that would be illegal. He's taking some supplement that he thinks will raise his production of testosterone, but that product likely doesn't have much credible scientific support.

Do you suspect his testosterone is low or high? I couldn't gather from your comment.


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Originally Posted By: PatientMan
He's not taking testosterone from GNC...that would be illegal. He's taking some supplement that he thinks will raise his production of testosterone, but that product likely doesn't have much credible scientific support.

Do you suspect his testosterone is low or high? I couldn't gather from your comment.


Oh, then whatever testosterone supplements you can get from there.

I have no idea if it's high or low. To get graphic, he thinks it helps him last longer. I agree smile

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Not necessarily in a bad way...what's he taking?!?!? cool


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Originally Posted By: PatientMan
Not necessarily in a bad way...what's he taking?!?!? cool


I'm kinda curious too. From what I've read, those pill type boosters really only offer a placebo effect. Any real 'T' boost has to come from creams or injections...


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Originally Posted By: Tallula

I have no idea if it's high or low. To get graphic, he thinks it helps him last longer. I agree smile


Is it Vitalikor? It's not a t-booster, it's more of a "male enhancement" product, like Viagra, but herbal instead of medicinal. It is very effective for most men.


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Never heard of that stuff, AS. Interesting...


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Nothing new to report from yesterday or today. Doubt we'll continue our discussion until early next week.

The problem with making a decision like this is trying to keep older problems out of the decision making process. When I start to think about how I really feel right now, all of the problems over the last 8 years start to cascade into my mind, muddying the picture. That really isn't necessary since just in the last two years there's enough there to process...

This really [censored]...


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Went to an amusement park yesterday with a family friends, there kids and D13. We had an absolute blast - most fun I've had in a very long time.

Still nothing new on R status & W. She's not really talked much since the other night.


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