What you are doing for your psyche is working PON, you don't sound in your sentences like the same person you used to be.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
I am not sure if there was OM. I highly suspected EA and highly expect it was broken off. Either way in my head I forgive her and that is the past. From this day forward
Thx. Spartan. Tough day. Put dog down and W brought me straight to airport. On top of all that my town is suppose to get HAMMERED with a blizzard. Good old New England. So I left my W and kids in a blizzard after putting dog down. I get father of the year award lol. My W is really supportive of me going to my self growth stuff.
Hamster we put our 12 year old pug down on October 10 2011. Right after exw file for divorce. He was 12. That was one of my worse days. His name was Pugsly. Exw was cold as ice that day. She wanted to leave him there but 25 MLC suggested I stay. And I did so did exw and D. He died in my hands. We all cried. Praying for you
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Inside Out. Just listening to advice on this forum. 25 and Bond. Bond said to me one day. What are you going to do to change the dynamics. I signed up for ACOA the next day and EE a week later. To be honest I wasn't expecting my W to change her tune. I'm blown away but I really am loving what we have right now. I was actually thinking she might be done after holidays. It was quite the opposite since. Please do not get me wrong it makes it a lot easier when your W is working with you and not against.
Rick sorry to hear about your dog. My W and I put our 2nd dog down in 10 months. The first time we were separated but we both put that aside. I slept at home that week and was there for my wife and family. This time I put our 2nd dog down 2 hours before I boarded the plane to fly to EE.
I am just finishing up my first night at EE and it is eye opening so far.
