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I am happy you had such a good time too SS. Yay!

Thanks CV, it doesn't bother me for the most part but it does bother me that he is treating it like a competition.
Just when I think I'm pretty detached he goes and proves me wrong. Mr broke when and brought a $20,000 4wd on finance. Said he needed a car for the kids, even though they fit in his brand new work vechile. Well arse face just turned up to pick up my children and suprise, suprise, he had the freaking nerve to bring OW and her children to MY house!! Arse face went and brought a eight seater!!
It now makes sense! He needed a new car for THE kids,... Meaning, so he can fit OW, her kids and MY kids.

He could see I was upset and had the nerves to ask if I was alright!! Really? Not even separated for four months. He is a real piece of work!!
You know what! The door is now closed and locked shut!!!

I can not and will not be treated like this! I live him but I don't like him and I don't respect him! He is an ant!
Well guess I'm right back to reality!! Life was so much simplier in the bush,... With my kids and family,.... With no phone reception and no H!!!

He is a gutless piece of crap! I'm worth way more than that! Good luck to them!
What maggots!!!

SS, hang in there, just breath!!! It's tough watching our lives unfold like this, but it WILL get better. You will learn and grow from this. You will know to watch for the warning signs in your next relationship. You will know so much more and be in a better spot for you. Your h will struggle constantly and eventually he may or may not figure out he is his own problem. You SS should be doing the hard work of fixing you right now.

What are you going to do now?? Have you set goals yet?? I have setup a project board with my 1, 3, 5 and 10 year goals. I made up 80 goals and dreams put them on another project board and picked about 8 that were the most important. I placed them on my main board with sticky notes. with specific notes on what I am doing this week to accomplish them. I open up this board daily to keep me motivated and it is really empowering to constantly see what dream I have and that I am actually doing something to achieve them. When I get anxious about my situation I can go and look at my boards and focus on my dreams and visualize me driving a 1968 Camaro or hiking the Appalachian Trail. Keep your dreams alive work on you and give yourself a break SS.

(((SS))) Christian Love from Tennessee

Thanks Subguy, it's hard not to let it get to you when the kids are involved. He called today and asked if I wanted to talk to the kids, they slept at OW house lastnight., its not even been four months and he is taking my kids to his girlfriends house to sleep with her kids. His a pathetic piece of work! How dare he do this to my children!!!