Yeap one of exw's complaints was that my eyes were bigger than my appetite. It is a family tradition to cook for an army what can I say. Bugsy she left a box of bowties behind. Was thinking of doing some art work with it. Like glue them to a bottle and make some kind of lamp with them.
I was asked to make Argentinian empanadas for our xmas party next Thursday. I text D if she would help me on Sunday. She said yes cause she likes them too. So cooking all weekend will be fun. Everyone is invited.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Rick, are there some guys you can get together with, or even couples who are friends? Have them all over for a big lasagna and you'll get that many invitations back for meals you don't have to cook at all.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
Glad to hear you are feeling better. Good weekend ahead of you - enjoy your time with your daughter.
And please send some empanadas my way, will you? De carne, de queso, de lo que sea que todas me encantan - y con mucho chimichurri, por favor!!!!
(((un abrazo))))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
D and I cooked empanadas and made really spicy jerk chicken. She loved all of it. While I was doing the dishes I thanked her for hanging with her old man. She said me too. Tears just came down so I had to leave and type this. I look at her and it feels weird. Like I can't protect her from all of this.? So I'm trying to compose myself. Maybe I'll wash my face a lot. But I can't stop seen her because it Hurts too much. I have to keep reaching out. Really [censored]
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
I just interviewed for a consulting job for extra cash. I know the owner. She asked why I wanted extra cash told her about the D. I told her that exw got involved in the horse world and that caused conflicts. She turns red. Tells me that she just got D. Her H, who still works for her, did the same, but to top it off fell in love with another man at the barn. They were M 22 years. So it must be the horse thingy. Needless to say I got the job. Now I have 3 jobs.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
So today I went for a hair cut, I just found this barber in May. Awesome hair cuts. I go to the door and there's a note that said landlord had seized this property due to the proprietors untimely death. He was 62 and super funny. He recently hired a female barber she was hotzzzzz. So I go to my old barber. I asked where is Tony who had been out ill, reason for changing barbers. The owner says he died. So my two barbers are no more may they RIP. and my hair looks like crapp.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”