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Was re-reading DR. It appears that I am in the last days of the M, so I have no other option but to try the LRT. Like the book says, it may not be the answer, but it will help my mental health that is for sure. It will be tough, as we have two daughters. But, if something needs (not me wanting to) to be said to W, it will be said.


BD: 8/20/2012
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Originally Posted By: Grateful
It appears that I am in the last days of the M, so I have no other option but to try the LRT.

Maybe you are, maybe you aren't.

LRT is not something to be taken lightly. Think long and hard before you go down that path. You have to be ready for all possible outcomes. And I mean REALLY ready, not just I don't have any other choice ready.

Originally Posted By: Grateful
But, if something needs (not me wanting to) to be said to W, it will be said.

Again, be careful. Once you ring that bell ....


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Drew, do you have any other suggestions for me? I am all ears. We are literally just waiting for the lawyers to do the "discovery" process. We are in the middle of D. We are not just simply separated. The LRT had bullet points on when to use, and my case was one of them. I am not doubting what you say at all. I am very open to other suggestions.


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Sure. Tell your lawyer not to rush the process. Just because she's in a hurry to get divorced doesn't mean you have to be.

Time is your ally.


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Oh yeah. I told him that our job is to string this out as long as possible.


BD: 8/20/2012
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