You sound like you are doing great! The times when you show your independence are certainly very positive.
I would agree that you should leave the R talks alone. Let your actions speak for you. Your H knows how you feel, you don't have to tell him anything. And he reacts so favorably when you just go about your business.
Keep on keeping on! I'll keep you in my prayers!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
