NG- your post washed over me like a wave of calm. (((((( )))))
Who you are, that beautiful graceful, loving person, is shining through, triumphing...you are titanium.
And definitely a SD 'interesting' observation. I love your response. Before i read the next line ('I am detaching') i could already feel your detachment in it. :-)
Isn't it amazing how we find in our daily interactions with people we find a little bit more hope and a little bit more light...when all we were looking for was a kick a$$ hairstyle! lol
Love you NG. I am getting high on your vibes :-)
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
Just caught up on your thread. I am sorry to hear about the D papers, but am glad to see that you are processing it and feeling better about it already.
I went through a similar process when my H filed almost two months ago. Sometimes, for brief moments I pause and think - is this really happening - and a wave of sadness comes through. So expect to continue riding the coaster for some time. What I have heard is that the whole process will be painful until the end.
Yet we are here and we all have each other to go through this together and support one another.
You are an amazing person and sometimes one of the hardest things about this journey is to see that in ourselves and embrace it. So please try to remember that whenever sadness hits you. You ARE worthy of so much...
((((NG))))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
Bright white, bone, ecru... I dunno, she might need some help.
And who's going to tile? I highly recommend it if you're not already tearing your hair out about something.
Yes, there are healthy people out there, but many people only seem healthier because we don't know them as well. There's always "stuff" to deal with sooner or later.
