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Can't do this.

Yes you can.

Keep doing those things that make you strong mentally, spiritually and physically.

I'm right there w/Mr. Bond...oh...yes you can!

Ditto

AJ

of course you can - you may not want to - and that's ok - but you can !!

You can do it!

Take it day by day, even hour by hour.

If you can focus on yourself and your kids, time will eventually start to flow much faster and the pain won't be so raw.

You will begin to see everything in a whole new light, including yourself.

You are stronger than you think you are. Believe it.

What she said ^^^^^^^

M, it is normal to feel like you do. And only you know what you can take and what you can't.

The reality is what it is. But here's the thing. I believe that you are the kind of person who sees things through. And either way you can choose to come out of this a stronger, better person.

I knew that I needed to know that I had done everything I could to save my marriage. I wanted to leave no stone unturned.

Dbing gives you tools to use in all parts of life and sometimes it saves marriages.

Either way you are better for it.

So, it's ok to feel what you feel. But then let the feeling wash over you and get back on your path.

You can do this. I have no doubt.

You can do it one moment at a time.

Don't fight your feelings, embrace them, say hello to them, and let them pass.

You will be ok.

H left yesterday morning to go gambling at casinos that are 2 - 3 hours away. He bought a cell phone and took it with him. He called twice yesterday. Today nothing. I have not contacted him other than a text to tell him his mother phoned and he was to phone her back. He did not say when he would be back. I did not ask.