Yesterday I decided to take a look at my exh on fb. Weirdly privacy settings seem to have changed so you can now see his posts. Oh my goodness he is an obnoxious idiot. It made my skin crawl to read it, and I thought even if we didn't have history and I read those posts I would think you were an absolute d!ck. Quite refreshing, although sad that the person I loved wasn't there. I did think thank goodness I don't have to be around that.
On Christmas day Joe fb'd me, bearing in mind haven't seen him seen him since May, spoken since August and had email contact since October. He said 'happy Christmas, and love you loads'. How bizarre, what does that even mean?? How can you 'love' someone but have no contact with them. I have been dark since he didn't return my call, I tried again once more in November, but I don't chase. I wrote back and just said Happy Christmas. He is so weird!
I went speed dating before Christmas, it was so much fun I am going in January too.
I am going to make 2013 a good year, perhaps not in terms of exciting travels like previous years but hopefully sort out career if I can get on this teaching course.
That is so bizarre! He sends you a message as if he just talked to you the other day. Weird!
So seeing xh on fb didn't trigger anything, it actually made you thankful you were no longer together. That's awesome! So strange how some people can change so drastically from the person you once knew.
Speed dating? WOW! That's incredibly brave! Of course, you are an amazingly brave woman so that shouldn't surprise me at all.
So glad to hear you are putting plans in place to make changes for 2013. Make it a great one!!!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
I know, so weird to just send a message like you haven't ignored someone for months. My sister said I should have ignored it and he would have come running but I just felt I couldn't be bothered with all that.
Honestly, ex husbands profile was so loathsome. Looking at ow profile affected me more because it felt like she stole my life, but she is welcome to it. Now if only I could find a nice man for myself now... That bit I am not so happy with.
Speed dating was easy, you just turn up and 15 men come and speak to you! Our group seemed nice, no one was romantically attracted to anyone, but afterwards we all went out to a bar and then a club, and everyone was great. It felt like I was backpacking again, having a night out with random strangers who are all in the same boat as you and meeting new people. I have really missed that being back.
