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Glad to hear it!!! And being on the road gives your a chance to regroup and listen to Pia. Awesome! The picnic is roaring. (((((((( ))))))))))


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Yeah. Can't wait to catch up on Pia (and my Spanish lessons).

Brief report. P, with her newfound detachment, is solicitous about my new food program and ever so understanding about housemate challenges. Her first day here I inquired about her cat plans for the winter gig, making it clear that that was a big factor in my math with the housemate. She insisted I not keep him around for her cats.

Another friend (an occupational therapist with lots of experience dealing with folks like housemate) gave me her professional opinion that it was hopeless that the living situation would ever be satisfactory. I bit the bullet and gave him notice this morning. I feel bad for him, but I think it's the best way to take care of me. And that is my job, after all.

I'll be on the road tomorrow, missing most of P's daughter's visit.

I'll check in more during the week. Y'all stay out of trouble!


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Congrats on taking the step to make your housing situation a little more peaceful. We'll hold down the fort while you're gone smile

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wow stubborn - when you make leaps you jump high don't you?

glad to hear that everything went smoothly.

Do I take it that from your brief report you are well on the blanket?

about w being solicitous - my h does the same - i think it's their way of feeling as if they are acting "right"

glad you get some space away - hope you have a wonderful week

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h filed 9/25/12


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