Congratulations on the wonderful opportunity! IMO you would only need to discuss this with your H to the extent it affects how you will deal with the kids -- but not until you've got things worked out with the job. Good luck!
Don't worry about H right now, the time will come when YOU are ready to say only what YOU decide he needs to know. This, right now, is about the wonderful YOU!
((( )))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
Jks, thanks so much for your kind and encouraging words on my thread. I always love to read your posts!
Is there more progress on the wonderful opportunity of the photography job?
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
I've been spending my week trying to find a place to live. Haven't found THE ONE yet but I will continue my search next week. I'm really excited for this next chapter of my life. It's going to feel so good to have a place of my own. I have never had that before. I went straight from living with my mom to living with my H and then back to living with my mom again. So this is really a whole new independence for me and it is going to be so good for me, I just know it.
I start training at the photography studio on Monday. Good things to come, people. What a blessing!!
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
Just wanted to say "thank you" to everyone for the loving support I'm getting here. I feel like as soon as anything good or bad happens to me, you are all the people I want to share it with first.
I start training tomorrow and I couldn't be any more thrilled right now. Life has been really good to me lately. Things are finally making sense. And none of it really has to do with H, that's the craziest part.
I was talking to a friend tonight and I was telling her that I don't remember being this happy. It's been a long time. And I feel like I can see happiness with my H but if he doesn't ever want to come join me on my fun adventure then I can totally see myself being happy with someone who shares my same views on life.
The best part about it is, I'm not worried about it anymore. Whatever will be, will be. This job is the greatest opportunity to open up so many more doors for me that I can look forward with 100% confidence that things will be good.
I went to church today and just soaked in all of the lessons and felt so spiritually enlightened. I then came home and made a fun lunch with my D6. She was so proud of herself for making it and ate it so fast because she loved it so much. Normally she would whine and complain that it looked gross or that she just wanted peanut butter and jelly. It was a major positive moment for us.
Then H came to pick up the kids and I was genuinely happy. When he left the sadness was only very little and I got over it quickly. The thoughts of what busting said fills my head a lot lately... I want to rest easy at night knowing that I handled my life with grace.
This may sound kind of weird but I have this ring that I've been wearing for a long time. I recently decided to name it "grace" so that it could be my constant reminder to live it. Something I could physically look at and remember where my head and my heart should be. (anything to keep me motivated!!)
Good night, friends!
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
You seemed like you were in a very rough spot not too long ago, and listen to you now! You sound so different, it's like you took a deep breath and started to look at the positive things in life...and that is just what you needed to do!
You have so many great things happening. You're on your way to become a new you! Keep the positive thinking, and it will only get stronger!
