Quote: Back to our conversation...(Bob Barker is easier to do after a margurita ) Now he wants to know what I'm doing for sex. I tell him nothing. He says me too. kind of sad.
This is your opportunity, girlfriend
You wanted to know how to piece from a distance - and the answer is...... (drumroll please)......... Phone Sex!!!
Look - he likes to call you late at night - next time ask him if he could help you out with your "problem" - I bet he'll be thrilled Bet he'll start calling you more and more
Happy Valentine's Day! I think Ellie may be on to something here... My Valentine's Day was pretty interesting...but my night is just me and the BB.
I haven't been feeling very good, so it is probably all the same. Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you. Totally agree with you about the car thing. And I know how crazy-making it is to have this on again off again stuff going on. It certainly stinks, doesn't it!
We should get together again soon. I'll send you an e-mail.
Take care
SG
Survival Goddess "The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any." -Alice Walker
On V day I had plans to have a massage and lunch with my girlfriend. I did not take my pager and turned my cell phone off. I was not going to answer in the middle of the most wonderful massage I have ever had!!
My GF and I had a nice lunch even though we were pretty much jello.
On my way home I decided that I was not done pampering and stopped to get a manicure. In the middle of the manicure my cell phone rings. It is H! He said he was calling me since I haven't been lately, his tone was very fun, but the message I think was meaningful to him. I reminded him of the early morning call just to say HI and give him hugs. He said Oh yeah. We talked a bit about what we were doing and I told him about the massage and that I was getting my nails done. Our conversation was really nice. He wished me a happy v day. I told him that I got a REALLY special gift. I started describing the chocolate and the soft sweet puppy that HE gave me. I told him that the puppy is sitting on my night stand. He in a joking way said that it wasn't from him. I told him yes it was and it was so sweet!
I think part of him REALLY needs this reassurance.
I asked him if he had received the letter I had sent and he had not. ASSumption is that OW intercepted it. I sent H the same letter in an Email.
About an hour later H called again. He wanted to ask me some "computer questions". They were problems that he was having but nothing I could really help him with. But he turned to ME to ask his questions!
No contact yesterday. Today I sent him a page saying that I was at work, and wished him good luck house hunting. I did put a small case xo at the end of the page. He paged back saying Thanks! and to have fun at work.
I have a question from all the wise veterans....
Where in the MLC timeline does reconnection occur? Any ideas on this?
Hi Water, I'm not a wise veteran on MLC, but I like talking to you! So ppllllbbf!
You sound good. I'm so glad you decided to pamper yourself for vday! It's nice that H called you! A def. +!! And it is nice of you to reassure him since he REALLY needs it. I think as time goes on, he will feel more comfy and safe with you.
Keep up the good work! Oh, I had an idea...what happened to you saying things like, "you have to find a little butterfly, etc."? If flirting WORKS for you two right now, why not throw some in there?
Life is about constant, predictable patterns of change. For the six thousand years of recorded history, as humans have entered this world, received parental instruction, classroom instruction, and gathered the experience of life; many have set for themselves ambitious goals, and dreamed lofty dreams. As the wheel of life continues its constant turning, all human emotions appear, disappear, and appear once again. A major challenge faced by us all is that we must learn to experience the changing of life’s cycles without being changed by them; to make a constant and conscious effort to improve ourselves in the face of changing circumstances. That is why I believe in the power and value of attitude. As I read, ponder and speculate about people, their deeds and their destiny, I become more deeply convinced that it is our natural destiny to grow, to succeed, to prosper, and to find happiness while we are here. By our attitude, we decide to read, or not to read. By our attitude, we decide to try or give up. By our attitude, we blame ourselves for our failure, or we blame others. Our attitude determines whether we tell the truth or lie, act or procrastinate, advance or recede, and by our own attitude we and we alone actually decide whether to succeed or fail. How incredibly unique that a God who would create the complex and immense universe would create the human race and give to those humans the free choice that would permit them to select their own achievement or their own destruction. This strange, but all-knowing God gave to us a delicately balanced sphere called earth. On it, he placed the intelligent human who would either develop it or destroy it. How terribly fascinating that a God would leave both projects - earth as well as humans - unfinished! Across the rivers and streams he built no bridges; he left the pictures unpainted, the songs unsung, the books unwritten, and space unexplored. For the accomplishment of those things, God created the unfinished human who, within his heart and mind, had the capacity to do all these things and more, depending upon his own choice. Attitude determines choice, and choice determines results. All that we are, and all that we can become has indeed been left unto us. For as long as you continue to draw breath, you have the chance to complete the work in and for the earth and for yourself that God has begun for you. In the cycles and seasons of life, attitude is everything!
What are thoughts if I were to email this to H? Good? Bad? Ugly?
I vote with Ellie. Phone sex is way more fun than philosophy.
And anytime I drown my H with all my insightful philosophy and psychology, it is not a good thing. (this is either bias or experience I'm sharing, not sure which. )
Oh alright then; fun, flirty, HOT phone sex it is!
I can do that!
I'm even going to go to bed a bit early, set the alarm for the middle of the night so I can call then. If I get VM I'll just give him a taste of what he missed.
I sent H the same letter in an Email. 
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