and you are right..i am a pitbull. i am loyal and loving. dont cross me. she wants a fight and now she is going to get one. i am going to shake this like no ones business. my bite is way worse than my bark. she shouldnt have tried takin the kids like this. i am crying right now.... i am sorry for my stuff that doesnt make sense
i have done that.. i have checked everything. it comes down to money. i dont have enough or i make a little too much. i am not taking this sitting down. i will stand up and fight for my kids. i am not defeated. i am tired..so tired. i am a bad judge of character. never in a million years did i think she would do it like this. she did. she is evil. i would never have done it like this if the sitch was reversed. i have called everyone..begged everyone for help. prior to today.
there is no hope for R. there never was. i fooled myself. i am not sad about the D papers. i am sad about my kids. my S keeps telling me he wants us to be a family. now i have to tell him i tried, but failed...
You didn't fail, the marriage failed. You don't have to tell your son anything more than Mom and Dad tried to be married and it didn't work out. Sometimes things are broken beyond repair.
The most important thing for them to know is that both Mom and Dad still love them and that the breakdown in the marriage is in no way their fault.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
Also one thing I've learned through this is that you (we) weren't bad judges of characters. People can change it doesn't mean that you could have foresaw that years ago when you met...or even a few years ago when you were living together happy. Also when there is a separation/divorce it is like your spouse has been taken over by an alien.
Feel this way today but make a vow that tomorrow you get up and be the man and dad that you are. You haven't had your day in court, you don't know the outcome. As Mach said, if you go in defeated, you will be defeated.
I would suggest you have no more contact with the W of OM. That could come back to bite you. Get your ducks in a row. Find out what your rights are.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
i know my rights. i know what will happen. i have been to court enough times in my life. why would OW bite me? i havent done anything but eat. my W is f-ckin OM..shouldnt that count for somethin? oh wait, not in this state. just like she had the kids for 4 days and gets to keep them. i have no ducks. i have no row. i have hope that maybe for once someone will see the good in me. thats wishful thinking. i dont have a lawyer so i dont have sh1t. i cant afford one. she took everything worth anything and the money when she left. i have our wedding rings...wooppee..thats worth probly $200 at a pawnshop.
today is miserable. dont worry about me. im fine. i have to be. f-ck this rollercoaster
So this here is your pity party I am sorry this is happening to you. And those words... are all anyone can say or do for you around here.
So when you pull yourself up by the bootstraps and don't take no for an answer, push a little harder, make appeals to people's humanity, or even ask the lawyer you had for your DUI if he/she knows of anyone...who takes chickens in trade.
Look man, when I was seperated, there was no way I could keep the apartment, wait...there was I had to swallow my pride and take one of the most demaning second jobs I can think of.
They are ways, but have your party with the hats and cake and crap.
This isn't over unless you want it to be.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
