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Opt.
You most certainly can! Rachael

Opt
just to tell we are with you and you can count on us to vent and share your scares ad feelings in the meantime he decide something... good luck
andrea

Hi Opt! (((HUGS)))

I really am glad to see that you are hanging in there. You are right to adapt a "wait and see" attitude.

I think the advice to write out your conversation two ways is great. And I loved the post from Treesa2 - I may have to save that one myself.

I hope that your D is doing better this week now that she is back in the post-holiday routine. I thought of her and her skating yesterday as I was out putting another layer of water on my backyard rink. It should be good to go by the weekend - yahoo!

You sound like your attitude is guarded but optimistic. Getting a handle on the finances is always a good idea no matter what happens. Making contingency plans is always good - and your settlement information sounds very fair.

Now let's pray that it doesn't come down to using it.

Keep us posted. I hope to get on Yahoo sometime soon - have a crazy schedule this week...

Opt,

We're all hanging in here with you. Your by no means alone.
Hang in there-your doing so good. Amazingly strong!

Good morning everybody and thank you for your support this past months. I do not know how I could have survived without you.

I have not heard anything from H yet, though theoretically he was supposed to come back tomorrow. I have serious doubts about whether that is going to happen, though. I think he is gone for good...

This morning I went to get gas for my car, and the pump would not take my credit card. I called the credit card company and they tell me that the cards were reported stolen on Jan 6 and the account cancelled.

My H had left his card with me when he left. He knows it has not been stolen.

I am no help this morning, but I am thinking of you.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Opt}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

oh my god

opt, i am here for you if you need to chat ok?

Have you gone to the bank and taken the money out of the accounts? Do it now!

Ellie

i don't want to speak for opt, but this eventuality has come up frequently in chats over the last few days and she assured me that everything that she needs is safe and secure

She said the money was still in the accounts - but she didn't say she had moved it anywhere - so what's to keep H from draining them?

Ellie