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Re: We lost the spark, and I feel guilty. Part#3 sophiedaphne #2255747 06/19/12 09:15 PM
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OP sophiedaphne Member S Joined: Jun 2012 Posts: 293	I am panicking, what do I do?

Re: We lost the spark, and I feel guilty. Part#3 sophiedaphne #2255748 06/19/12 09:21 PM
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labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	Take a deep breath and calm yourself. I wouldn't speak to him while he's in a rage. Let him settle himself. Does he do this often? Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: We lost the spark, and I feel guilty. Part#3 sophiedaphne #2255749 06/19/12 09:21 PM
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heartbrokeinsd Member H Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 714 South Dakota	i would leave. that is not a good sitch. i am sorry for you. stay strong and go somewhere safe until he calms down m:31 W:32 M:8 T:11 S:10 D:5 Bomb:1/07/12 Separated:4/23/12 Divorced: 12/12/12

Re: We lost the spark, and I feel guilty. Part#3 heartbrokeinsd #2255752 06/19/12 09:24 PM
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labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	Yes if you can get out without having an interaction with him, that would be good. Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: We lost the spark, and I feel guilty. Part#3 labug #2255753 06/19/12 09:26 PM
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labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	sd, where are you? Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: We lost the spark, and I feel guilty. Part#3 labug #2255758 06/19/12 09:38 PM
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OP sophiedaphne Member S Joined: Jun 2012 Posts: 293	I went into the bedroom and he calmed down and came in afterwards and apologized. He has never done anything like that before. We calmly discussed how we're going to divide everything up, I guess. Sorry to scare you guys. It was so scary.

Re: We lost the spark, and I feel guilty. Part#3 sophiedaphne #2255759 06/19/12 09:39 PM
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labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	Thank you for responding. Are you OK? Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: We lost the spark, and I feel guilty. Part#3 sophiedaphne #2255760 06/19/12 09:39 PM
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OP sophiedaphne Member S Joined: Jun 2012 Posts: 293	What do I do now? We apologized to one another. But what do I do?

Re: We lost the spark, and I feel guilty. Part#3 sophiedaphne #2255761 06/19/12 09:39 PM
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labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	About what? Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: We lost the spark, and I feel guilty. Part#3 sophiedaphne #2255762 06/19/12 09:39 PM
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OP sophiedaphne Member S Joined: Jun 2012 Posts: 293	I was scared. I'm still quite upset. I don't know what to do right now. Did I do the wrong thing?

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