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Also, it's not good to just transfer your old dependence on the H to being dependent on this board. There is a great woman inside you that can stand strong on her own two feet. You can do it.

I am trying. It is so hard. I still feel dependent in some ways. I do definitely feel like I am making progress, but it definitely is a long process. I'm sorry if I am acting dependent on this board. It's comforting and keeps me from going slightly insane to read about this stuff.

Takes time. They can see through us. They know when we are doing things just to get a reaction from them. This is pursuing.

Make yourself happy. Progress will come slow. Then you will see some and pounce on it and scare it away.

GAL for you and no one else.

You will make a lot of mistakes. Do not dwell on them. Just try to stop making the same mistake or you will do more damage.

I am better now than I was in April, but I am not where I want to be, with or without my W.

You are right. I'm on my lunch break and im going to pick up a bagel and go and sit on the boardwalk and eat it. It's so simple but I'm going to do it and Im going to enjoy doing it by myself!

Sophie, I posted a response to something you said on Lostin407's thread. Just wanted to give you a heads up.

Thanks, jks.

I made a new friend today! I love that!

Awesome! You may want to consider changing your "mood" face next to your name, too

Good idea. I fell asleep in my car before, to "tired" feels appropriate. I just keep wondering when something, ANYTHING! is going to happen.

We are so stuck in limbo. He hasn't made a move, nor have I, but I'm not going to. Is he going to file? Is he going to talk finances or living arrangements? I don't know when this is going to happen and it feels unfair that I'm just WAITING. I think he is also waiting for me to start talking about it. But I WON'T.

Keep it going!