My H has said the same thing about failure. I wonder if that isn't part of the depression of MLC talking. I thought about "helping", but decided it's his problem. I'm on track to getting a divorce.
So, no real advice, but I do read your posts, and I do care. We've been on this road for a long, long time.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Wow, you are one strong lady. Glad I stumbled onto your thread again. I remember seeing your posts before but couldn't relate as I was still in the middle of the ciris; now that we are "piecing" I can totally relate.
My H is somewhat like yours - he has never left after all that OW/blaming/talking about divorce....and as of now, we are together but there is something missing....
I guess its how it is, eh? Just got to be patient and count our blessings.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go