WH it sounds like he is enjoying the feeling of freedom from responsibility of helping you with the household. It is good that you took the time you needed to compose yourself when you got home. Maybe you could take your kids out for a fun day without him?
I'm still a novice at the DB'ing but it also sounds like you are still holding on to certain expectations which triggers a lot of emotional response when he does anything. Remember to take care of yourself, especially right now if you are feeling low. What can YOU do for YOU?
Seriously?? This kind of stuff should be illegal, right? It is absolutely insane the kind of torment and pain it causes a family. I feel for you because your kids are older and understand it even more than mine do. I wish I had answers for you and words of encouragement but I am just as lost as you. I will never understand this type of behavior. Lust seems to over rule all. It's sickening!
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
H Is extremely dysfunctional and OW must be as well to send home cupcakes. Four of them even. One for each family member. How considerate.
Yes I am hostile and venting. I am enraged. H deliberately disrespected me. I think I am going dark. He does not want me so he can just not have me around. I am really going to get out and GAL. I am tired of just sitting around the house acting like the wronged wife. I am tired of analyzing why he is doing what he is doing. He is just being a jerk and doing whatever he can to hurt me.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
