Have I mentioned how much I wag my finger at this 100 post cap on each thread? Geez Louis. I know we're working with what we've got, but this site needs to move with the times. Even a little. Hint hint, wink wink!
Anyway, here's my previous thread for those we would like to catch up...
Thanks Cadet. On the forums I'm on, I tend to create new threads when I'm ready. Ending one's thread at 100 messages to create a new one just feels forced sometimes, you know? That said, I understand the benefits of doing so as well.
UPDATE This is likely going to be a BIG week for me (in terms of legal matters), I'll keep y'all posted. I just ask for your thoughts and prayers. I am not looking forward to the floodgates that are about to open.
UPDATE 6:08pm The crap is about to hit the fan, and I have no idea what to expect, except for the worst. After going through a few edits, I've finally given the green light for my legal team to submit my filing for custody of our son.
Not sure if my lawyer has been talking with my wife's lawyer lately, but coincidentally my wife very brooding and in a very bad mood today when she arrived to fetch our son.
I hate this and have been asking God if this is the path He really wants me to take. I've always wanted to take the path of least resistance to difficult matters, so this is turning point for me.
Thank you, Mr. Bond. Turns out my lawyer sent me one more set of forms to sign and mail back to them, so perhaps my wife was upset about something else? Oh well...I can't help how she's feeling.
I know I should be taking things one day at a time, but ever since I completed the custody filing, I'd be fine one moment, then nervous or heart-broken the next. Not the best kind of composure if I were interacting with my wife daily.
There are two outcomes (I can think of right now) that can come from this:
a. My wife also fights tooth and nail for custody, or b. My wife comes to a realization that something more constructive (and less destructive) can be achieved between us
However, was reading my FB news feed last night and saw that my wife had added her milestones in her Timeline. She added her high school graduation in 2001 all the way up to present.
It's curious and interesting that when she added her Mission Trip to Asia in 2001, she put in all her stops EXCEPT her many stops to Malaysia (where at one of them, she met me). In 2002, she came for an internship at a church in Malaysia, which is also not in her Timeline. Of no surprise to me is the empty Timeline between 2003-2007 when we were dating/engaged/married.
What irks me is the fact that she is willing to cull all the great people, relationships (I'm not talking about me) and achievements during her 2001-2002 visits just because I was part of that picture?
With the history of how her family has broken relationships/bonds with people close to them, is this really how my wife forgets? By wiping them from her "history"?
