Mandy, I hope that you and your son have a Merry Christmas and may the new year be brighter and more promising for the two of you. The relationship between your son and his father is one that will evolve. His father will need to take a huge step forward and man up to his issues and mistakes before things will get better between them. I do hope that this will happen in the new year.
Enjoy the holidays!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I think we have the men who are stuck in their crisis forever.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Hi Trusting, yes I have had the same thought for a long while now, I think my ex is stuck and I think he will stay stuck, ah well so be it, life is too short to be bothered anymore so long as myself and my beautiful young man (son} are okay thats all that matters to me now, its ex's loss that he has not seen son flourish into the adorable young man he as become, merry christmas Trusting, xxxxxxxxx
Enjoy the holiday season! BTW, how much snow is on the ground?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Snodderly, at the moment in time I dont have much snow on the ground, it is more freezing fog and hard frost, the area I live in seems to be escaping the snow for the present time, we did however have a few rough weeks back in november. some places in the uk have up to ten inch of snow, hahaha english weather for you, its a mere minus ten on a night, wow roll on summer, xxx
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL MY LOVELY FRIENDS ON THE BOARDS XXXX nothing to update in my sordid life only the fact that ex and son exchanged christmas cards and a small sms text on christmas day, apart from that nothing. Hey but whos bothered definately not son or I, we have plenty to be getting on with in life and many holidays booked this year, I feel this year is going to be a good one woopeee, cant wait it is time I had some luck in my life xxxxxxxxxxxx
Hey Mandy! Happy New Year to you too. I'm also doing a spot of travelling this year .... to Europe. I am so excited. My D30 lives in Germany and is having her third child in Feb.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Hi BeingMe, thanks for popping in, wow bet you cannot wait to see you new born grand-child, I love babies when they are new born, such a nice smell to them, lol then they start walking and talking. Hope you have a nice trip to Germany it won't be too long now either will it, xxxxxxxxx
well just an update as to the news I have been told. old aunt isnt very well, the lady doing her cleaning for her bumped into the ex and being courteous just mentioned to him that his aunt wasnt very well, his reply "your the f*********g cleaner you f*********g look after her, shocked at this the lady then blarted out to him that he should be ashamed of himself and the fact that him and his wife took all old aunts money and even the money for his own fathers funeral and never paid any of it back, but yet he couldnt care less if she is fit and well or if she has anything to eat and drink. at this the ex threw a drink in the ladys face, uptipped the table and knocked her off her seat. I am in total shock that the ex is like this, if anything at all he was a total mouse when he was with me, he would scarper at the first sign of any trouble, he really has changed and changed for the worse by the sounds of things, he realy is screwed up, what a way to be, what a lovely caring gentle and lovely man as been changed into is beyond me, anyhow not my business I havent contributed to the recent happenings. just an update to let you peeps know how they really do become the opposite of what they were like pre mlc xxxxxxxxxxxxx
