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Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. MrBond #2234336 03/30/12 08:13 AM
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BFloat Member B Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 803	thanks! i assumed it was teacher in chinese but wasn't quite sure which character it was in reference too. obviously my kids aren't into kung fu panda. lol! Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. MrBond #2234348 03/30/12 11:13 AM
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purgatory Member P Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 825 Virginia	Ding ding ding! Mr.Bond is the winner Barely I was certain you knew who he was! M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. purgatory #2234357 03/30/12 11:53 AM
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tenbusrider Member T Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 156	Monkey, good link! Great perspective there. It's really amazing how timely some of the things on this site come up when I have a little trepidation about everything. Mr. Bond, thanks for answering the question about shifu - it sounded so familiar, but I couldn't for the life of me figure out why! Me: 31 W: 28 M: almost 6 T: 10.5 S2 Bomb#1: 05/11 Bomb#2: 11/11 S'd: 11/28/11 Moved back in: 12/28/11 MC: 06/28/12 ...what is it about the 28th day of the month?

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. tenbusrider #2234378 03/30/12 01:57 PM
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Rick1963 Member R Joined: Aug 2011 Posts: 2,906 Likes: 1 Piney Land	"Wanna play a round of Quien es mas macho?" I'm telling you La^^^you need to get that shotgun out of storage ASAP.lol M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12 �Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.� John Wooden

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. MrBond #2234405 03/30/12 03:41 PM
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OP Grmpy_Mnky Member G Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 524 MS	I wasn't suicidal but I was dying a slow and unhappy death. I was simply going through the motions of living life, too afraid of losing "control" to love, to have fun, to enjoy the beautiful things this life has to offer. - Bug I can recall with tremendous frustration trying to convey this to my W. Despite my repeated attempts, I could not find the words and it just kept getting worse and it destroyed me. I was very close to the "end." I've seen so many parallels with the two of us Bug. I'm so happy you have recognized this behavior, because you have helped me in turn - thanks! Brought this over from the Bug's thread. Important... Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13 Dogs still like bacon...a lot.

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. Grmpy_Mnky #2234437 03/30/12 05:59 PM
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sayitaintso Member S Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 951	Damn Monk, digging up posts from 2001, well done sir!! Me- 34 W-33 S15 S10 S6 Married- 11 Together- 18 Bomb- 6-2011 WAW moves out- 8-2011 "Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. sayitaintso #2234526 03/31/12 05:53 AM
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Truegritter Member T Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 2,698	"...that secret from which one never recovers, that even in the most perfect love, one person loves less profoundly than the other." Thornton Wilder The Bridge of San Luis Rey Our choice is to understand this and to choose to be that person, in face of all odds, decide. It is very empowering to do so... My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. Truegritter #2234566 03/31/12 02:49 PM
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OP Grmpy_Mnky Member G Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 524 MS	Nice one TG - thanks bud. Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13 Dogs still like bacon...a lot.

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. Grmpy_Mnky #2235389 04/04/12 04:21 PM
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OP Grmpy_Mnky Member G Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 524 MS	So, in full-on D mode now. Lawyers are doing their little dance, etc.. Still very much want to R, but at the same time I feel anger creeping in. Oh well, just wanted to vent a bit. Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13 Dogs still like bacon...a lot.

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. Grmpy_Mnky #2235400 04/04/12 05:04 PM
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sayitaintso Member S Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 951	Sorry Monk!! Me- 34 W-33 S15 S10 S6 Married- 11 Together- 18 Bomb- 6-2011 WAW moves out- 8-2011 "Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley

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