Mnky gets a gold star!! And he was genuine- that's a bonus!!
BF is right about the texts- she can't just text you to chat b/c she might think you'll get the wrong idea. But he wanted to reach out to you, and finances are a safe topic for her.
She flat out told you that she doesn't believe the changes are permanent- now you know what she's looking for.
Keep it up, and she'll start to be more intrigued.
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
BTW - of course I said it to get her attention, but I meant it! When we see each other every month or so I've come to a point where I choose my words very carefully with her.
Doing the Happy Monkey dance!
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
Thanks everbody. I hope it gave her pause to reflect on the good stuff. I guess the zerbit I blew on the dog's belly impressed her. Lol
For those of you newer than I: listen to the "Illuminati". They know what they are taliking about...
Monkman - I am so happy for you. Hearing this really made my day, and I'm sure you must be so glad to see that time indeed can help. Remember we were talking about that, how you were so early into your sitch that given time it may change? I think that's the case here, DB principals in action.
Illuminati huh? Didn't know you were a fellow conspiracy theorist!
Good. I gues I need to type that a 1000 times for practice?
What was that saying? If a 1000 monkeys typed at a thousand keyboards for 1000 days...one of them would turn out a best seller...I don't know...it was something like that!