Of course they are! She wouldn't want you to go out of your way to accomodate her and make her life easier, after all, she made your life a nice beautiful bed of roses! Didn't she?
Ugh! WAS's are so incredibly selfish aren't they!!
Me31 H33 M11 T15 S10, D4 H deploys 01/11 H R&R two weeks 10/11 ILYBNILWY/sep 12/11 homecoming 1/12 pos D 1/13
Just spending time with the kids. S10 has his derby races for scouts tomorrow, he told me just becore going to bed that he doesn't know if he wants Mom to come. When I asked him why he said because she probably won't show up anyway so if he doesn't want her there then it will be ok..........stupid woman! Otherwise I am just keeping on keeping on, just putting one foot in front of the other. Trying to move forward, fighting like h*ll not to move backwards. Thanks for everything.
You're a good man, Michael. Sometimes people (your W) try so hard to be important in someone else's life (OM) and they completely forget that they already have those (like their children) to whom they mean the world.
She has a hole in her soul but it's not your job to fill it.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
Had the pinewood derby races for scouts today, W showed up. We were civil and even shared a laugh. S10 won 8 of 9 races and took first place, afterwards mom asked how he did ......he was hurt..........ugh!!! Topic of D came up and W said she didn't want me to be financially responsible for any baby expenses so I said then you shouldn't have done this! She left right away saying this had been fun. She texted that her and OM are in love and want to do things right so I shouldn't mess up the D........really? Do things right? I answer back" Have a nice weekend. I'm not doing this. Took a walk with the kids( this weather is great ), now watching a movie and making popcorn .......the old fashioned way:-)
I'm impressed you handled that so well.... I might have thrown in some more colorful words!! Your W seems to have created a fantasy world that only she and OM live in. I'm so sorry that your kids are going to be in the fallout zone when everything comes out... You are doing an amazing job at being their 'umbrella' from the storm.
You have been handed the biggest pile of lemons I've ever seen... You've got enough to make lemonade for the kids AND some lemon martinis for you! I can't imagine the pain you're going through.
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M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
