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Michael any GAling plans? Sorry u r having a bad night but things do get better. I hate the ups and downs myself but try to shake them. What do you like doing? Video games, reading do what u like to get your mind away. It will help you. I had a hard time at 1st with GAling but it is getting easier and u don't think of the sitch as much. Last night I slept 9 hrs. Little by little things normalize. So give it a shot


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Together 26 yrs
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(((( mike ))))

if you like xbox i hear skyrim is good. personally, i prefer left for dead. zombie kick a$s always makes me smile.

when i'm away from my kids, i try and keep busy but i still count down the days until i see them again.

(((( ))))


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Thanks Rick and Bf,
I watched a movie and finished cleaning and worked my way out of the funk I was in.
My W is pregnant by OM. In my head I know it's over so why won't my heart get on board. I've read a few posts from others on this board about this and I just wish I had the answer. It doesn't seem to matter today what my head knows, my heart isn't ready to give up and it makes me feel like an idiot......I mean what has to happen for my heart to give up? Hasn't it been enough already? What is wrong with me?


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Originally Posted By: mr mr
What is wrong with me?
NOTHING

You love your wife!

But for now detach and put the love away in a box.

You must let her go and if she is yours she will come back.

If she does not then she was never yours to begin with.


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