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I've been hoping you would update Glad things are going well for the most part. Definitely speak up when you're feeling hurt, angry, etc. Festering feelings will strangle the R.

I don't post often to your thread, but I follow it regularly..... It gives me hope.
My H is saying all the things your H did when he left. To see, that after 7 months, he's willing to give a try is encouraging

I'm really happy for you and your H on your new path.

Hi everyone. I had a second thought I would post. Things are great. We have been living together about a month or so. He did tell me the other night that he wanted to be transparent with me as much as possible. He told me that his ex girlfriend text him a few days ago asking how he was doing. He told her that things were great and it was like a miracle. She asked if she could still text him and his reply was yes but like once a month. He said to her what if you found out your husband was texting an ex girlfriend all the time. How would that make you feel. Her response was I understand. He read all these messages to me. I did not react at all. I did tell that I was very happy that he came to me about this and told me.

and that was about it.

Let us know how you're doing, Hopeful!

Yes! We'd love to hear from you.

Hi everyone. Sorry, I haven't had much time to post lately. Between tax season (I do taxes), school and my D and now H. I dont have much time for anything right now. I have been on complete bed rest this week. I was in the hospital for two days at the beginning of the week. I go back to the dr for a followup. I am having complications from my surgery in December.

My H has been great. He has really stepped up with taking care of our D. He sent me a text the other day saying that he was madly in love with me and that he would do anything for me.

I have gotten upset a couple of times with him and I did approach him about what I was upset with. But I used the "I" statements now, where before I would say "you". This really helps. Because he doesnt feel like I am accusing him of anything.

But we are doing great.

Very happy for you Hopeful, so nice to see a success story!

Sorry about your medical issues, I'm glad H is being supportive, you deserve it!

Accuray

Hope you feel better Hope and its great to get a success story on here to keep us motivated.

Best!

I'm so glad to hear that you are doing great! I wish the very best for you and your H!!

Never give up, especially with something you want so bad. My friends wanted me to give up and I couldn't. And I am so glad that I didn't.

I will keep you updated!