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Tell him that you have nothing to discuss. All he's going to do is justify why he's going out with your W.

Now this is going to be tough. Don't be afraid and stand up to him. Be strong and firm.

Thats exactly what I did! I told them both that any discussions would be between W and I and that I had no desire to talk to him, that we had nothing to discuss unless he wanted to apologize for being in the way and was moving on.

6:30 has come and gone and I have heard nothing so I guess no apologies today.

Man, that dude has some f'ing nerve to even consider asking to communicate with you. I don't like to wish bad things on anyone but he would be a great candidate if I did.

Good job mr! I don't see any benefit whatsoever in talking w/ him.

W is pregnant ........after that sinks in consider that in Wisconsin since we are married this child is legally my responsibility. I could end up paying child support to W and OM for their child......I am so f...ing mad right now!!!!

Ohhhhhh I'm so sorry. Do you have someone you can call just to talk?

Paternity testing can be done so don;t get too hung up on that right now.

i can't even begin to imagine what's going through your mind. do the kids know? (((( ))))?

Kids don't know, and she wants to keep it that way.
D18 is on her way over.
I'm a mess.

Just try to hang in there. You can do this.

So sorry man. You are in my prayers

"Kids don't know, and she wants to keep it that way."

SCREW THAT.

Is she going through with the pregnancy? If so, get legal representation immediately. Protect yourself before things get worse.