Thanks for the feedback guys, it is greatly appreciated, Do nothing it is!
And I appreciate the smack upside the head Sandi2, I need one of those daily :-). I've read the books and understand the principles but just like so many things applying them effectively is a different story, I must improve in this area.
Good luck to all with your respective sitch's!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!