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Re: not enough time and too much distance any chance? #2216314 01/27/12 03:01 PM
Joined: Aug 2011 Posts: 2,906 Likes: 1 Piney Land R Rick1963 Member
Rick1963 Member R Joined: Aug 2011 Posts: 2,906 Likes: 1 Piney Land	AC what have you decided to do? Can you meet with her a couple of hours before to discuss and have a convo? Good luck M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12 �Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.� John Wooden

Re: not enough time and too much distance Rick1963 #2216322 01/27/12 03:13 PM
Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 622 A any chance? OP Member
OP any chance? Member A Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 622	Unfortunately, there will be no conversation. She is living 1500 miles away, and will appear in the hearing by telephone. Just me and her lawyer. She won't even know I got all dressed up for the occasion. H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012

Re: not enough time and too much distance any chance? #2216373 01/27/12 06:09 PM
Joined: Aug 2011 Posts: 2,906 Likes: 1 Piney Land R Rick1963 Member
Rick1963 Member R Joined: Aug 2011 Posts: 2,906 Likes: 1 Piney Land	Lets us know how it went. Hang in there M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12 �Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.� John Wooden

Re: not enough time and too much distance Rick1963 #2216519 01/28/12 02:31 AM
Joined: Aug 2011 Posts: 2,906 Likes: 1 Piney Land R Rick1963 Member
Rick1963 Member R Joined: Aug 2011 Posts: 2,906 Likes: 1 Piney Land	AC how did it go my friend? M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12 �Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.� John Wooden

Re: not enough time and too much distance Rick1963 #2216636 01/28/12 03:18 PM
Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 622 A any chance? OP Member
OP any chance? Member A Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 622	Got divorced yesterday. Actually legally separated, but the truth is divorce. Just letting W keep health insurance. This is what she needed, what she wanted. W attended by phone. Got in an hour long conversation with her L, who was a very understanding person who was amazed at how much my W and I care for each other. WTF. Never felt lower in my life. Didn't know it was possible to feel this bad. But it is....... H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012

Re: not enough time and too much distance any chance? #2216639 01/28/12 03:28 PM
Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert L labug Member
labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	(((ac))), so sorry. Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: not enough time and too much distance any chance? #2216642 01/28/12 03:48 PM
Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 301 O Oneeleven Member
Oneeleven Member O Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 301	I'm really, really sorry. Sux doesn't begin to cover it.

Re: not enough time and too much distance Oneeleven #2216709 01/28/12 05:46 PM
Joined: May 2011 Posts: 1,499 Likes: 106 Los Angeles, CA V Valeska19 Member
Valeska19 Member V Joined: May 2011 Posts: 1,499 Likes: 106 Los Angeles, CA	(((AC))) M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12 Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear. Love at all costs because you are loved well.

Re: not enough time and too much distance Valeska19 #2216710 01/28/12 05:52 PM
Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land ~ ~ kd ~ Member
~ kd ~ Member ~ Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land	Hey AC, I get what your saying. SA can seem like a D. And yet, I have the SA and I don't feel D. There are still things I would not do because I am still M. I don't know... that's just my feelings... but I get that it hurts... feel better soon...

Re: not enough time and too much distance ~ kd ~ #2216902 01/29/12 01:46 PM
Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 622 A any chance? OP Member
OP any chance? Member A Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 622	So...how long do you keep the door cracked and the way home paved and smoothed. When do you just accept facts? H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012

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