Isn't there a saying somewhere that "we can't see the big picture because we are too close to the details?" (I know I butchered that saying, and I always think of Monet paintings when I hear it.)
I know that I'm guilty of picking apart and analyzing every conversation and action from H (the details), I think I'm afraid of what the big picture would actually look like: H moving on to another woman and sees no future for us....
Fill up my coconut again..... I don't think my smoke stack is big enough yet, still waiting.
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
Glad you've enjoyed the story. The moral is that God can turn even the worst situation into a blessing......if we let him, he will also allow us, if we choose, to keep it the worst situation.