Divorcebusting.com Forums Open Forums For Newcomers W moving this weekend..next leg of my journey

But you have to leave her to her task...it's happening, she is moving and that's that. Does not mean it is permanent but in some ways your life is about to get EASIER as far as having less tension in your life.

25 is spot- on here my friend. You are much further along than I, but when I moved out things got much easier on the whole. No doubt it svcks beyond a doubt!!! A week or so from now you might be thankful you have this space. I was. Hang in there!

Hoping things are going well for you IS... I think 25 is right... ok I hope she is right. I am looking down the same road you just walked. One of the few things keeping me going is that life will get easier.

I look at the stacks of laundry and want to do them but don't because my W has made it clear she wants to do it (then do it already!). Soon... that goes away.

I have a house that is mine and already set up. She'll be the one having to buy spices, groceries, furniture, etc...

I don't have to deal with the "getting off to school dance" five out of 10 days. Because she has SS and SD, she never gets a day off from that unless I choose to have SS and SD for a sleepover. Though this is a mixed bag... I'll miss it those five days too.

Seven out of 14 days I get my mornings to myself. W will get two mornings to herself out of 14 days, again, because she has SS and SD almost full time.

I'll have a lot more disposable income.

I don't have to brace myself for what the morning will bring... or whether she comes home from work angry... or whether something I say or do (or don't do) sets her off.

There are positives... just have to look for them.

Thinking of you IS. Hope you are hanging in there.

((( )))

(((IS)))

(((IS)))

^^^^^((()))

I hate when people disappear from here. I hope IS is ok.

ditto that^^^.

IS, what's up? We all still pull for you!

(((( ))))