hmmm, eons ago when I saw "separated" on match.com I assumed that meant "separated for many months and getting a D" if they were separated for more than 2yrs I took a sec look, if only a few months, no way.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
The online sites have never lead ANYONE that I know into a relationship. The old fashioned way of doing things seems to work best buddy
That would be your opinion right? my opinion is your wrong Wont rehash, but dont tell my fiance, ( 5 yrs together next month) or Jill from this board, married to her on line R, 2 yrs in Jan, or Barb, 7 yrs i think it is w/ her man that they dont work.
Maybe its time for me to sign off this board lol Good Luck Wii, keep all your options open! church, friends, clubs, dating sites, whatever you want, at leat your our there trying! XX
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
Wii Tried to delete but guess you cant now didnt mean to sound harsh to your friend
--but I get a little tired of reading here on the board, people who havent had a good experiences, or their brother hasnt or whatever on line dating so its ALL bad and it NEVER works, that would be like me saying, Oh girls dont date a man you meet in college they are all cheaters! Thats how i met my ex, but I wont judge all guys from college like that lol, make sense? I think its great you are gettng out there, not necessarily to remarry or anything long term, but to meet new people, spend some time with them, and if on line is one way, thats great, it DOES work for many and if you read the satistics its pretty darn good, other things are good too, I met men different ways, just so happens Bob and I met this way and I am a big fan of OL dating, not for all but for quite a few these days it is Wishing you the best, your a wonderful guy and there will be a wonderful lady waiting for you when the time is right!
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
Yeah - I met the first boyfriend I had after ex left, online. We dated for a year, he is still one of my best friends, and it was a marvelous experience that was just what I needed for healing at the time. And I never would have met him any other way.
Ok finally able to post. I wanted to reply last night to So Far Away. If you don't know any happy out ones from online dAting - you haven't been reading much. That is very negative and discouraging to those here to move fwd. I have been with Josh for nearly 8 years & we met online. I know many who also met that way. It's more than a discussion when you put it down totally. Wii - these are real people on there just like you or me. I know it's funny what some write but remember in dating to give someone a chance unless you reach a deal breaker. Treat others as you'd like to be treated. I think it's best to stop poking fun at anyone who has enough hits to put themselves out there. Trust me - it was put of my comfort zone for sure & most on there would say the same. Get the divorce. That settles the separation issue. & ask someone to meet for coffee. Online stuff is only the meeting place. In person is the way to find out comparability Barb
I've always thought it was interesting when people would say "There are only people looking for hook-ups in a bar. No quality people."
Hmmmm...what does that make you? If you went to a bar are you automatically not a quality person or just looking for a hookup? See, those sterotypes go both ways and you wouldn't want to be classified like that yourself so why do that to others.
Cracks me up!
Wii - I love reading your posts about your adventures. Keep them up. Most importantly - HAVE FUN!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
I met H of 6 years on my 3rd online date :-) We were both separated. BUT, I'd urge anyone not to date anyone separated. Get the D done. Anyone considering dating a separated person is really not in all that great of a place, especially if the D is not well underway. I'd worry about anyone single willing to date you, and worry about you dating anyone not single.
Well, I've got an appointment with my lawyer for Wednesday morning to start the divorce proceedings. It makes no sense to continue on in a separated status. It's time to get it done.
Woo goo Wii - that's a huge step fwd. far bigger a step than dating. I became a freer person when mine was over. Sorry that was woo hoo - spell check on the iPhone hates me Mishka (which came up mishmash y the way) said it well - it works both ways. If you don't think there r quality people in there then why r u on there I kept high standards about who and how I would meet but other thAn that - didn't find many single guys in the produce ausle& how do u know if they're not married anyway Barb
