Thank you for all your coments. I'm in a bit of a different place now. I went to confront her last Sunday about the OM and it fired up in to a big bust up where she ended up getting me arrested. Said that I assaulted her when I didn't. And now her solicitor is now trying to stop me seeing the kids for twelve months because I've been arrested. I don't want to be with a woman that can do this to our kids. I have never been violent in my life and do not intend to strat now. And she knows this too. I have lost all respect for her and even thought I still love this woman I'm not in love with her anymore. So it is so much easier to let her go now.
Me 38 Wife 39 Married 17 Together 25 D 12 S 9 Bomb 07/27/11 Separated 07/27/11 OM EA Poss PA 08/30/11 PA confirmed 10/23/11
