M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
Your Consistent changes + Time = change SHE CAN believe in.
She MAY not choose to believe in the changes, but she sure as heck won't believe you if you keep drawing lines in the sand
and then crossing them.
Then on 29 August
My personal depression went from bad to worse on Friday. I found out that my grandfather is gravely ill. This only added to my anxiety that I am feeling from missing my W and SS. I called SS but he did not answer. I sent SS a text message and he did not respond.
My imagination went wild about what they were doing.
[color:#FF0000] Stop letting it "run" wild.
Bet you don't do that in court.
Well gee, okay...Denver- that's stinkin' thinkin' and weird and unattracrtive and Old Denver [/color]
Luckily one of my best friends and his dog came over and spent the weekend at my house. This helped distract me some.
Saturday morning, I freaked out because I still had not heard back from SS, although some of this became legitimate worry as he very rarely flat out does not get back to me.....
I called W at around noon on Sunday. W and I talked for a few minutes. She told me that SS had gone camping with her mom and stepdad so his phone was probably out of range.
W told me that she was in Casper, WY for a show. She told me that she had driven up there that morning... she volunteered who she had driven up with ... I did not ask. Whether or not she omitted anyone who was with her, I will never know... Hope you spend zero time on that^^^ issues..
Denver,
I wont rag on you b/c after all, your grandpa died. Sorry about that. I know he was 92 but I never feel that age means "enough" when we love someone who was a fixture for us. My mom is 89 and when she passes away I'll grieve the same as I would if she were 45, or so I think.
As far as your wife and the situation, I don't know why you keep blowing it. Do you? Seriously, at some level don't you? You drew a line in the sand regardless of where you drew it we all know it wasn't a crazy line. And then you crossed it. Again. How can she take your changes seriously? It's like you are sabotaging things. So, I wonder...are you? Or are you just so weak? Especially before the grandpa news. The whole freak out about not getting a call back from ss seems forced and there were other people you could have called if you were so worried when a teenager had not returned your call on a Friday... I posted the following and you said you agreed and "got it". Denver, reaching out" to her now = pushing her away. Don't forget.
Your Consistent changes + Time = change SHE CAN believe in. She MAY not choose to believe in the changes, but she sure as heck won't believe you if you keep drawing lines in the sand and then crossing them.
so what changed?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
sorry for the weirdo posting that came out up there...wth?
Have no idea how that happened...
But geez, um did you get my point?
Take care buddy, and I am sorry about your grandfather.
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Denver, Been thinking/praying about ya. Just checking in to see how your doing.
Sorry everyone... needed a break. I want to update as a lot has happened... or been said between W and I.
I will soon, I promise.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
How are you doing Denver? I hope you are well. It has been awhile since there has been a Denver sighting.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
Hope you didn't get that sex change...seemed like an over reaction to me.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
