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Hello DG,

Just checking up on your thread to see how you've been doing.

I think I wanted a 4x4 for you resorting to that terrible habit! But you're doing good. Keep up those baby steps!

I am very proud of you DG. You have totally changed for the better and if your H is too caught up in himself to change that is his problem. Good job not looking at the records.
When you gonna seperate the accounts?? Then you can never look!

I don't have much excitment in my life either but I figured boring is better than drama filled.

I called the company today to ask about it and I have to wait until his contract is up in January or else pay a $300 fee.
I don't have $300.

Who's your company?
I have Verizon and my w and I were allowed to separate the account. I had to do it as she couldn't eliminate a line w/o me opening up a line. She was the primary account holder.

Are you the primary account holder on it?

In our case, H asked that the lines be separated when we separated, and I was in agreement with that. We are with AT&T. I had to be the one to make the request that his phone number be removed from the main account (I'm the primary account holder). An email was then sent to him, and he had to follow through with setting up a separate account with his same number. Since he stayed with the same number, same phone and just set up a new account, we weren't penalized or charged.

But if your cell provider has different rules, then so be it. As scary as it is to believe, January really isn't that far away! You stay strong and resist the urge. Or, like paige40 said, text her! That's what friends are for!

I am through tmobile. What they said didn't make much sense so I am going to call them back later to have them explain it to me again.

I'm doing ok, today has been a hard day for me emotionally.
I am picking up sex starved marriage, although not sure why I am going to read it since I am not having sex nor do I seem to be married.

Sorry- didn't have much time to write earlier.

Today my parents had to put their dog down.
He was 18 years old and lived a good, long life. Poor thing was blind, couldn't hear and most of his teeth were missing. The past few months he has gone down hill.
The vet said that his heart was failing, and chances are in a few days they would have found him dead. I think that would be much more devastating. My Dad is taking it pretty hard but I know he'll be ok.

On a positive note, S10 was recommended for promotion in Kuyki-Do. He is currently a green belt and will be promoting to blue stripe.
His face lit up when the master called his name.
He also broke through a board with his hand tonight. I can tell he was pretty proud of himself.
S10 is also participating in a triathlon on Saturday. He did it last year and I was so proud of him. I can't wait to watch him again!

I wish I didn't feel so...depressed. I wish that things were different.
I wish I could wake up and this feeling would be gone.
Sometimes I wish I was a different person.

Cell phone companies are the all-time worst to deal with. It seems like when I absolutely have to call AT&T for something, I'm on the phone for no less than 1/2 an hour. Good luck! It can be so frustrating.

Look at your book choice this way...it's great prep for your future...whatever/whoever that may hold! I have some great nothing-to-do-with-fixing-your-marriage reads if you ever want them. Sometimes it helps to give your mind a break from all the R work.

Hang in there...lc4

I thought about reading another one of MWD's called "changing your life and everything in it" to see what that is all about.

DG, I've read both SSM and Changing Your Life and Everyone In It. They were both good.