As everyone says on here, believe nothing they say and half of what they do.
If ex husband #1 is the father of SS22, then she may be telling XH#1 that SS22 has his own room because she wants him to think he's okay.
I certainly can understand the pain and urge to react, but I would caution you to take it a little slower to further confirm what's really going on.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
"If ex husband #1 is the father of SS22, then she may be telling XH#1 that SS22 has his own room because she wants him to think he's okay."
Exactly. So she's lying to him too.
I understand your caution about taking it slow, but...why? She has told me she does not love me, she does not want to save our marriage, she does not trust or respect me, she's having a PA with the OM after repeatedly telling me there's nothing going on...at what point is it OK for me to say, "It's over?"
Sometimes I think everyone's caution about "taking it slow" is just avoiding the inevitable.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
