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For what it's worth girl... I'm thinking of you and your sitch. I follow what you write, and always hope for the best. It's all about the kids now. I tell myself that hourly if not more often. You are doing well. Hang in there.


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I hope everything went well for you today.


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Thanks, DG - it's not until this afternoon, but I'm sure it will be fine. S7 will be there, and he's a good distraction.


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Good luck, guhrl! grin

I get to take D9 to her "meet the teacher" on Wed. My W is "out of town", so this will be the first time I'll be in contact with FIL since... I think, May...

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Good luck, KD!

I'm considering letting H do "first day of school" drop off alone with S7 - I have an early meeting I'd really prefer not to miss. I'll see how S7 feels about the idea.


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Done with the open house. It went well - I was pleasant and slightly chatty with H. He was also pleasant.

He seemed to hang out for a bit after S7 and I departed - not sure why, wonder if it was for nefarious reasons. Not sure what those reasons could be, but I don't trust him very much right now.


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Bleh. Mail asking about paperwork is not a great way to start the morning.

Haven't responded.


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Responded - said no time for meetings right now (true, thanks to the "bb" or "breast bump"), but asked him to send me what he has.


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My friend T is making a valiant effort to cheer me up.

I said, "I guess I'm just sad that he replaced me so quickly."

He said, "If you lost your job and they decided to give a chimpanzee your desk, would that really be 'replacing you'?"

He's a good guy.

Still hurts, though.


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Quote:
He said, "If you lost your job and they decided to give a chimpanzee your desk, would that really be 'replacing you'?"


I needed that.

AG, yes it hurts, I have faith it'll gradually hurt less.


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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
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