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"Both of my friends said he seemed interested in me, but at the end of the night he asked for my friends' number."

His loss.

That's why your my favorite

Aw, shucks...

Wait, wait, wait... I thought *I* was DG's favourite

(sulks away quietly)

Kidding aside, glad you're alright TM, and I'll settle for being DG's second favourite. Maybe even third, assuming she puts herself at number one!

You guys are all my favorite. Everyone here is plain awesome.

Hey, LP...

nyah nyah nyah!

DG- sounds like you ougtta just kick back on relax and enjoy today. I agree with Telemark up above - his loss. But...Telemark said it first, so he can still be your favorite.

Now now jb....your my favorite also.

Ok, so remember last week that guy asking me to brunch and I told him I couldn't go? He asked me again today and I went.
We met at a mutual spot that we both knew, and the whole way there I am saying "WTF am I doing? WTF am I doing?" I was so nervous I was shaking.
I've only met him a few times and he is actually quite shy and me being a jibber jabber I was afraid I'd talk too much.
I didn't look at this as a date, because I really don't have any romantic intentions and I am not attracted to him in that way.

I had a pretty nice time, and so did he I think. He paid for brunch and then we chatted for a bit. We sat outside to eat because it is beautiful out.
I'm glad I went, I don't know if we'll do it again sometime or not.

I really don't want to tell him my situation. Is that wrong of me?

I don't think it's wrong to not want to tell him right away - I think it's fair to say, "I'm currently separated, but I won't bore you with the gory details just yet" or something - so he knows a) you're not divorced, b) the details are a little gory, and c) you'd be fine with talking more about it, just not yet.

Does that make sense?

It does make sense, I just figured I would wait a little bit to see what his intentions are. If I brought it up right away, then I would be assuming that he wants to date me and I'd feel like a tool for assuming something.